Sunday, February 26, 2012

Death of a Celebrity

Why are people so affected by the loss of someone famous, someone they did not know personally? Well, loss is loss. The media and social media have brought these people into our lives in a more intimate way. Bonds are formed, even if they are virtual bonds. And any loss can trigger emotions. We don't need to judge it, but can try to understand it by open communication. There may be some aspect of how the celebrity was appreciated for their talents, their gifts, their lifestyle, their contributions or their entertainment value. There may be some connection to how the person died or the age of the person. There may be a raised consciousness of the reality of death, regardless of how much money, acclaim or accomplishment someone has achieved. External circumstances or things to which we become attached on our earthly journey cannot protect us from the reality of death and the pain of grief. Let us be mindful of the celebrities in our lives, not just those profiled in the media, but of the seemingly ordinary people doing extraordinary things, of the people we love, as well as those who love us.

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Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Funeral Celebrant

As a Funeral Celebrant, I write and deliver the eulogy and emcee funeral, memorial and celebration of life services. Having assisted bereaved family and friends in their home, the funeral home, cemetery, golf course, restaurant or banquet facility, the focus is on what the family chooses in order to honor the deceased and to help them navigate their loss. Some families select a traditional service and some choose to wait weeks or months between the time of death and the service. Others choose to have an additional service or to celebrate the anniversary of the death or some other significant date. The sooner you start the conversation with your celebrant, the more you will appreciate the value and the resources that are available to assist you.

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Friday, August 20, 2010

Bereavement Overload

We are bombarded with loss: loss of people we love, financial loss, job loss, home loss, safety and security loss and loss of integrity. Please take a moment every day to send messages of love, integrity, abundance, gratitude, healthy choices and perseverence into the universe. You can make a difference. Keep the faith, continue making healthy choices, keep dreaming and manifesting and continue practicing self care and taking positive action in being of service to others.

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